Is there really a way to prevent bullying? I wanted to explore that idea especially since most of us will become parents, or are parents, and a lot of us will be working in a school someday. This
article I found on the American Psychological Association website provided ways in which parents, teachers and students can prevent bullying. My personal view on bullying is that a lot of the times I think bullies have something they are battling with internally. Whether it's emotional damage from abuse or low self-esteem, or whatever, they do not have the skills or resources to properly handle these feelings and they exert them onto someone else. Whatever the case, I do believe that collective efforts from parents, teachers, and kids themselves can help prevent bullying and hopefully end the progression of suicide and acts of violence among our youth.
One thing I really liked about this article is that it included tips for parents of children being bullied AND of those who are the bullies.
For Teachers and Administrators:
- Be knowledgeable and observant
- Involve students and parents
- Set positive expectations about behavior for students and adults
For Parents of Kids Being Bullied:
- Observe your child for signs they might be being bullied
- Teach your child how to handle being bullied
- Set boundaries with technology
For Parents of Kids Engaged in Bullying
- Stop bullying before it starts
- Make your home "bully free"
- Look for self-esteem issues
For Students:
- Report bullying and cyber-bullying
- Don't bully back
- Avoid being alone
Are there any tips that stood out to you the most? Do you think these are effective in preventing bullying? Anything you would change or add?
I think we also need to define bullying. There can be a fine line between a student making a joke and a student being abusive. Providing a definition would help bullies begin to identify as bullies, and help the bullied more to confront the situation.
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